:: Bukan Lelaki Melayu ::

Reading the tittle itself might make you feel the heat.
But I don`t have any intention of putting on fire on anyone`s seat.
I really don`t.

The idea of putting is entry up.
Is because I feel like terpanggil-panggil untuk menulis.
Terlambai-lambai dah aku tgk Bloggy memanggil aku untuk dtg.
Since I read an entry posted by a good friend.
Not angry about it.
Not pissed.
May be the entry is not meant for me.

Tapi tipu lah kalau aku kata aku tak terasa langsung dgn isi entry berkenaan.
But I do respect her for her opinion.
She has the right to voice out what she thinks is right.
But it could be a bit filtered.
For the sensitivity of the plural societies here in our country.
I think.
But again.
It is a democratic country.
She is free to express any of her thoughts out.
After all.
It is her blog.
It is her territory.
And by having this entry up.
It doesn`t mean that I will have any issue with her.
Seronok jugak sekali sekala bertukar fikiran.
What ever it is.
She is always a good friend of mine.

*smile*.

She condemns Malay girls who don`t fancy dating Malay men.
For she thinks Malay men have everything it takes to be "Jejaka Idaman".
She condemns those perempuan Melayu yang mengagungkan lelaki berbangsa asing.
Lines quote by her
"Buat apa mengagungkan lelaki bangsa lain?
Belum tentu keindahan yang kau kecapi sekarang akan berkekalan selamanya."
I would say.
She has a point there.
What ever you have now.
Is not guaranteed that you will have it for eternity.
Fair enough.

But.
Is there a guarantee that by dating a Malay man.
You would be happily ever after?
Like those fairy tales we watch on that talking square box at home?
I am afraid that there is no warranty card attached to those Malay men when they come into ourlives.
Forgive me if what ever I say here hurt anyone.
I am just stating out my points of view.

I don`t date a Malay man.
For some reasons.
I was cheated by a Malay BF of 6 years with few Malay girls.
He might have his own reason for doing so.
Perhaps this Malay girl he was dating was not good enough for him.
*smile*
Papa had some other women in his life and neglects Mama.
Uncles cheated on aunties like trillions times.
Girlfriends cheated by their Malay boyfriends like countless times.
May be I have the fear in me.
Or may be I am so fed up with things.
You know what your ex bf has done to you,too.

I never say that non-Malay men are all good and nice.
That they could marry and be faithful till they die.
I don`t even say that they are perfect.
Neither do I say that Malay men are not good too.
Perfect.
Nobody is.
Just because I don`t like them.
It doesn`t mean that they are not appealing for others.
People do have their own preferences.
Aku suka makan sushi.
Engkau suka makan nasik.
Tak sama jugak kan citarasa kita?
Tapi itu tak bermakna aku lupa siapa aku.
Dan dari mana aku datang.

May be because I personally come from a family with some mix marriages.
I am not really into Malay chaps.
Or may be for the facts that they don`t turn me on!